Are we being over conservative? What smartness are we talking about?

Dear Friends ,

We listen to a song - from some film - "TV pe breaking news hai yeh mera ghaghra , Punjab se leke Dilli via Agra" and then , we say - our culture is getting hit by - Western Sensibilities.

What is our sensibility ?

India today rakes under a fear of 'culture loss' completely - forgetting - that this same culture - has withstood so many - centuries , so many decades , so many empires , and so many civilizations. Have we changed ? I'm sure we'll all answer - No.

If we know - that time can't change us - why do we feel strangulated at times, has it anything to do with insecurity - the way we portray it. Or, actually - it is - our Desire - to show the world - we have survived.

Maybe - we don't have the "Best Linen" .... available in the world ... but do we ever think ...that we actually don't even need it. Friends - we are a rich nation .... and that is the reason - why so many times - so many - have come - to enjoy our hospitality. The only big problem - is we always exchange our gold - for their iron.

Why doesn't India learns to fight. Why do we stand up and start clapping - every time a "Fair Complexioned Foreigner" is brought infront of us. Why can't we not understand - It is not his land. He will never - Develop it.

Either we are too - short-sighted , or , we lack this feeling of Nationality. Why are our books - not teaching about the freedom struggle in detail ? Why are our children - still treated as second grade - in their own homeland ?

Sensibility - is not something - that comes - from 'Learning or Teaching' ...it comes directly from within .. we either like something .... or we don't ..... a compromise - is like - eating fish - without liking it.

The tone of the article may sound a bit political here, but the truth remains. Only by saying - this - That we will be made smart - now. It shows the presumption - That we are currently stupid.

Last but not the least - when shall we do something ?

India is not its cultural heritage , India is not its forts and fortresses , India is also not Bollywood. India is what lives under the constant fear of death due to lack of good quality life.

We need to be sensible , as well  as sensitive , towards - what we want to do with our Nation. Remain - the secretary - to the Gora Saab - who has no concern for our life. Or become the king - of our land - and believe in God - to turn it rich for us.

I don't believe in fate or destiny. I believe - men - can do things - God - wants them to do. It is on them - how much they believe in God.

Take Care ............ Keep Reading

India is dying. Food crisis has hit us. Why are grains not being made cheap ? Where is our food ?

Life is about moving ahead. Old things frustrate. Speed of life should be fast.


I don't know why people think so much about whom they lost - to time destiny luck or whatever. The fact is that they have lost them. We should always think of better things that lie head of us. Because on bitter truth of life - that those who abandoned you for better pastures, will never come back.

Someone once said to me - always marry a person - 'who loves you' and not the person 'you love' .... now I understand why that person said so , because - in a relationship - the girls always have a upperhand. Men love women , but at the same time also - transfer the control in that woman's hand - to take - decisions - that actually involve both of them.

People in India tend to think , much below the Emotional thresh-hold required to maintain and carry long term relations. People are mal-nourished. People are poor. The vicious cycle of poverty we read in Economics is at play here. When I want food - I can even duplicate myself into your well-wisher , the tragedy is - I am not actually your well-wisher , but I start to pose one.

I really feel so low - that - I had some such people in my life. Anyways - God may full fill their desires , their weaknesses and make them see - the world on a better - platter ... a platter of love , a platter of creativity , a platter of growth.

We are not what God has made us ..... but we are there for a purpose. We have to create a better humanity. We have to help the world survive.

Some of the things that need our attention are -

1). Small children (newly born children) need a lot of care and support
2). Women (post delivery) need a lot of care and support
3). Sick people (especially with incurable diseases) - such as TB , Cancer , Aids , etc need our care and attention
4). Old people - are at the centre of our concern. They are the power houses of experience , imagine where the world will go - if they are not there to show us the way.
5). Youth - the most - confused ...has to be !!! it is in the centre of the "Apex" ... this is where - he/she needs to concentrate. Once 10-15 years ahead of here, they will have to live in a world that - they had created for themselves. You waste your youth - you destroy your future. You nurture your youth - you enjoy life later. Also, the government should - facilitate - "Early Marriage" ...and provide some sort of assistance initially to such couples , so that they can - atleast also create a family, and their thinking horizon broadens. Such little measure - can make them feel - they are cared for.

India as a nation is growing ... only in terms of population , hatred , color , religious and caste based divisioning .... the Fundamental Question of "United we grow" - "Divided We Fail" has come into play. Our leaders - or I must say - the disillusioned but powerful , are creating a weak India.

Not everyone can think, but those who can think. Must start it now. Otherwise , we will but remain - a nation without emotional beings. We will watch movies but no one will smile or cry. Can we imagine that sight ?

Make the food cheap. Make the food in abundance. Don't starve your own people. Do something.

The Feeling of Longingness - The Central theme in Many Bollywood Movies.

Mere dil ne chun laiyaa ne

Tere dil diyaan raahan

Tu jo mere naal tu rehta

Turpe meriyaan saaha

Jeena mera.. hoye

Hun hai tera, ki main karaan

Tu kar aitbaar mera

Main karoon intezar tera

Tu dil tui-yon jaan meri

Main tenu samjhawan kee

Na tere bina lagda jee

 

The words are from a popular movie in bollywood - Humpty Sharma ki Dulhaniya ... and, the song has been constantly toppingthe charts all across India as well as Asia. Now what I feel about this song. This song has a lot of soul in it. The song portrays - longingness, compassion, desire to associate with the one he/she loves. We are such a busy nation. The best part is busy - without much business. We love to shop, we love to drive, we love to watch TV alone....and finally - we love to see life pass by, when we are eating those good for nothing morsels in the night. Why is our life so dark ? Why is our heart so heavy ? Why do we feel so alone ? Why don't we want to live ? The simple answer to this might be - our inner strengths are weak. We like to be less talked too ... we like to be silent - we like to - think about things - that are futile and waste , and we try to keep occupied in things that can get us money...but what about Happiness. Friends it is very natural - to suddenly start thinking differently in life. If we eat the same ice-cream day in and day out, we will get bored. Same is with relationships ..we don't want to see the same face - day in and day out. We must respect our privacies. We must get some time with our own selves also. We are not born slaves of destiny. We are there to chose. No we will not Maggi today...it will be Top Ramen. Life is about a bit change friends. Then there are those notions of old memories coming back. It is true - our subconscious stores - many of those old memories - we consciously or unconsciously suppressed some time....it is so unfortunate - for some...that Time and Destiny .... does something - they start to relive the same era. Why is it so with only some ? Why can't we have a life .... where we eat, drink , stink and die.... why do we think ?
A song that struck my mind yesterday ...just a few lines from it...

Humey dosti tumne itna rulaya kyun ???

Humey dosti tumney itna sataya kyun…

Jahan hum miley they ..Bahut khush wahin par they..

Humey tumne- wapas- wahan se bulaya kyun…

                                                                           

Kya mai kahin kho tha gaya

Ki neend mei mai so tha gaya

Aur ab jab meri neend khuli …. tum ho nahin…

Ya mai pareshan…tha bahut …

Ya ki koi baat nahi…

Mai jo ab socht-ta hun….mere alfaaz nahi…

Check youtube soon...........you'll get the real song too.

Hope you like it.....

Keep living.

Keep giving.

Kyunki dene mein woh maza hai jo lene mei nahi...aur yeh baat har woh insaan janta hai jisne jindagi mein kabhi kuch - bina matlab ke paya ho ...................... :)

God bless u all